💌 Letters For Kids Of Divorce
Written by Grace Casper — an adult child of divorce — these are real letters delivered by mail, giving kids something to open, reread, and return to for reassurance — without screens or pressure.”
😌 A Note From Someone Who’s Been There
Meet Grace:
Grace Casper was 8-years-old when her parents divorced.She remembers what kids notice, what they worry about quietly, and what they don’t always have words for.Grace is the host of the podcast Divorce: What I Wish My Parents Knew and has spent years sharing the kid’s perspective to help parents better understand what divorce feels like for children — not in theory, but in real life.These words reflect the kind of reassurance Grace wishes she had heard as a kid.
📬 How It Works
1️⃣ Sign Up (For Parents)→
Tell us your child’s age and birth order so we can send a letter that feels relatable — not generic.2️⃣ A Letter Arrives (Offline, On Purpose) → Your child receives a real letter from an older kid who’s been through divorce — no apps, no screens, no pressure to respond.3️⃣ Go at Their Pace → Read it together, read it later, or tuck it away. There’s no right way — just space to process slowly.*Some kits also include stickers and conversation starters to make connection easier — without forcing “the talk.”
😌 What a Kid a Few Years Ahead Might Say…
The Reassuring Version:
✨ “This wasn’t your fault. You don’t have to fix it. And you’re still loved by both parents.”The Honest Version:
💛 "Some days will feel weird. That’s normal. You don’t have to understand everything right now.”
💌 Letters Worth Keeping
Real words from kids who’ve already lived through divorce — printed, folded, and mailed so they can be read again when needed.
🌱 Gentle Extras That Help Kids Open Up
Each kit may include simple stickers, conversation starters, or a blank page to write or draw — all optional, all pressure-free.
🎁 A Thoughtful Gift for a Hard Moment
Know a family going through a tough transition?This is a gentle, offline way to support a child — without advice, pressure, or screens.A small reminder, delivered by mail, that they’re not alone.